Recent events in the world have put a lot of strain on relationships. It has highlighted for a lot of us what wasn't working with our loved ones and it may seem that there's no way out
You are feeling stuck and hopeless as you keep getting involved with similar types of people and all your relationships seem to follow a similar curve. You know something is wrong but you don't know how to change
You deeply wish to find that beautiful connection with someone, you want intimacy, love, companionship and complicity. But every time you try to date it ends up badly and you are not managing to get out of this cycle
My clients often come to me feeling hopeless and frustrated. They tell me "why do I keep going for the wrong guy? why can't I be happy in a relationship? How can I find the right person?"
I've been there myself ; this is how I felt about the early relationships in my life. I've always been frustrated to realise I kept repeating the same story over and over again, but I didn't know why or what I was doing wrong. I worked with the best relationships experts out there, but the solution was always a quick fix or something to change myself to appear perfect for "Mr Right".
But that didn't feel right. I had a deep sense that to make permanent changes, it would take more than a few text templates or scripts to follow during my dates. I needed to address the core issues.
And that's when I discovered the actual issue was the relationship with myself. I didn't like myself enough, I didn't think I deserved to be loved or treated well ; I didn't feel good enough deep within. So obviously in relationships I took the stance of being a people-pleaser, I was too scared to assert myself in case they would leave me. So I was never myself and therefore never happy.
Through a deep journey into self-development, I discovered incredible tools to change how I felt about myself. I relentlessly applied them and practised until I started to see the results. I even became a coach and a therapist through that journey and started to help other women make that change.
Today I feel whole and complete. I respect and love myself and as a results all my relationships have turned around. I feel loved and respected, and more importantly, I don't feel I need anyone to make me happy anymore - I can choose the relationships that fulfil me, but I feel so whole inside that I'm finally not scared to be rejected anymore - so I don't compromise myself. That gives me an incredible freedom and has sanitised all the relationships in my life.
I want the same for you.
I'm not going to give you tips on how to make him call you more ; or on how to play hard to get so he can't wait to propose. This feels inauthentic to me. What I will share with you however, is how you can build that self-belief, how you can turn around how you feel about yourself - so you don't need those superficial tricks: you can be yourself and naturally create a healthy fulfilling relationship.
Because when you like yourself, you naturally respect yourself. You want the best for yourself so you don't put up with disrespectful behaviours. You feel so whole and connected to yourself that you don't fear abandonment and rejection anymore. It becomes easy to say what you feel, what you want and don't want.
And you exude confidence - which is very attractive. People will be attracted to you like magnets and you will be in a position to choose the right people for you - rather than settle for what's out there just because you don't think you deserve more.
My course, 6 steps to fulfilling relationships, will take you there. We'll go through the journey of identifying your dysfunctional relationship patterns ; you'll learn to spot immediately the red flags in someone else and the deal breakers, so you can get out before getting hurt.
You'll learn to unearth those unconscious negative beliefs you've been holding, about yourself and others, and change them so you can feel confident and hopeful again. And finally you'll learn some very effective tools (the same Tony Robbins and Paul McKenna use in their programs) to turn your life around.
I've been a coach, a trainer and a therapist for 14 years and helped thousands of women with those tools. They work.
So join me today if you too, you're finally ready to change, and find happiness - first within yourself, and then in your relationships.
As I'm just launching the course, the price is still quite low...but I expect it to go higher quickly, based on my other courses. so don't miss that opportunity! AND if you sign up within the next 72h you'll get the full package with 3 extra bonuses worth over £700.